Polite Ways to Say "Excuse Me" in Korean
For a general polite “excuse me,” say 실례합니다. To get a server’s or stranger’s attention, 저기요 is the usual choice, but tone matters.
The most common way
sillyehamnida
A polite, neutral-to-formal “excuse me” for interrupting, entering, passing by, or making a small intrusion.
How to say it: Don’t say it as “sil-lay”; the second syllable 례 is closer to “rye” with a light r, and 합니다 flows as “ham-ni-da.”
Other ways to say it
- formal
sillyehagetseumnida
A more formal “excuse me” said before interrupting a meeting, entering a room, or briefly leaving.
When to use it: Use it in formal settings, at work with seniors, or when you want to sound especially courteous.
- soft/polite
joesonghajiman
“Sorry, but…” — a soft opener that makes an interruption or request less blunt.
When to use it: Use it when you need to interrupt someone or ask a favor and want to sound tactful rather than direct.
- attention-getting
jeogiyo
“Excuse me” used to call a server, shop staff, or a stranger’s attention.
When to use it: Use it in shops, restaurants, or public places to get someone’s attention; keep your tone gentle, since shouting it can sound blunt.
- polite/casual
jamsimanyo
“Just a moment” or “excuse me” when passing through or asking someone to wait briefly.
When to use it: Use it in everyday polite situations when you need to squeeze past, pause someone, or ask for a short wait.
- tentative/very polite
hoksi sillyejiman
“Excuse me, but…” — a very tentative opener that softens a sensitive question or request.
When to use it: Use it before asking a personal question, making a delicate request, or approaching someone you don’t know well.
In a conversation
- A
, ?
Sillyehamnida, jamkkan iyagi jom nanul su isseulkkayo?
Excuse me, could we talk for a moment?
- B
, . ?
Ne, gwaenchanayo. Museun iriseyo?
Yes, that’s fine. What is it?
- A
.
Hoeui siganeul jogeum jojeonghago sipeoseoyo.
I’d like to adjust the meeting time a little.