Polite Ways to Say "Excuse Me" in French

The most common all-purpose choice is “Excusez-moi.” For a lighter, quicker interruption, “Pardon” is equally natural and often softer.

The most common way

Excuse me — a polite, all-purpose way to get someone’s attention, interrupt briefly, or apologize lightly.

How to say it: Say “ek-skew-zay mwa”: the x sounds like “ks,” and the final -ez is a clean “ay.”

neutral, quick
A light, everyday “excuse me” or “sorry” for quick interruptions or squeezing past.
When to use it: Use it when you brush past someone, need to cut in briefly, or want a softer alternative to “Excusez-moi” in casual settings.
formal

A formal, earnest “I beg your pardon” — more weighty and polite than a simple “Pardon.”
When to use it: Use it with strangers, older people, or in very formal situations when you want to sound especially courteous.
polite

Sorry to bother you — a courteous opener when you need someone’s help or attention.
When to use it: Use it when approaching a busy colleague, a receptionist, or a stranger you need to ask for information.
very polite, professional
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May I trouble you for a moment? — a polished, tactful way to ask for someone’s attention.
When to use it: Use it in professional, service, or formal settings before asking a question or making a request.
polite, calling attention

Please — in French shops and restaurants it also works as a polite “excuse me” to call a server or shop assistant.
When to use it: Use it to get a server’s or shop assistant’s attention without sounding abrupt; add a small wave or eye contact.
polite, conversational

Sorry to interrupt — softens cutting into a conversation or meeting.
When to use it: Use it when you need to break into a conversation, a meeting, or someone’s train of thought.

~~Excuse-moi, madame…~~ → Excusez-moi, madame…
Use the vous form “Excusez-moi” with strangers and in polite contexts; “Excuse-moi” is for people you already address as tu.
~~Pardon moi~~ → Pardon / Excusez-moi
“Pardon moi” is not the standard French phrase; use “Pardon” alone or “Excusez-moi.”